Effecting Change – Part 2

I recently celebrated a birthday but the changes that came with it are greater than those that simply come with age.  Two weeks ago, we sold our house. We weren’t ready for the move and it took it’s toll on us. Selling up and starting over was the only feasible plan. To add to the changes,  BB and I are separating and as I write this, I’m halfway towards my new life.  It’s not the life I would have chosen, at least not on my own, but it’s the life I’m going to have, so I’m dealing with it. I’m moving back to the town where I was born and raised and where the majority of my family still lives. It’s extremely hard but I know it’s not impossible. I hope it’s not impossible.

We packed the truck up on Wednesday and pulled out of Kelowna Thursday morning. BB is driving my moving van and towing my car behind; I’m riding shotgun, as usual (you don’t just walk away from each other after all this time, you pull away gently – but with all your stuff).
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We made a quick stop in Banff where we had a private memorial service for our Skyler. It was very difficult being on the golf course, surrounded by memories.  When Skyler died, we were 3 days from moving to Kelowna and there was no time for me to grieve the places we’d shared – even if I was capable. I got to do that yesterday to some extent but it became obvious to me that the process is far from over.  We laid his memory to rest in one of his favourite spots, the ‘beach’ off the golf course where the Bow and Spray Rivers meet.

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We spent the night in Canmore and it was lovely to see the Three Sisters again. And to know that the bunnies are still running rampant.

Day 1 knitting involved sock repair.  The sole of the foot had blown out and a simple darning wasn’t going to work. Reknitting up to the toe was quicker than I imagined.

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Next stop: Regina, SK

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3 responses to “Effecting Change – Part 2

  1. Anne, I am so sorry to hear you are separating. With heartbreak comes breakthrough. I wish for you peace and acceptance and the courage to keep moving forward. xo Elly

  2. phyllisdendron

    Hi Annie:

    I hope your day was easier on you.

    I spent a lot of time looking at previous posts on your blog, and I feel I know you in a completely different light. There is something about the written word that is so completely different than the spoken word. Through one’s writing, one’s soul appears. I especially liked the section on dogs, with you and Skyler tripping you in the snow.

    It is almost like reading your diary, although I know it is open to others to see, as well.

    Thank you for adding me to your followers. I am hooked now.

    Phyllis

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